“I’m Not the Right Age or Body Type for This”

It’s one of the most common things that we hear from women thinking about having a boudoir photography experience.

“I’ve always wanted to do something like this… but I think I’ve missed my window.”

or

“Maybe if I’d done it 10 years ago, before kids… before life… before this tummy existed.”

Here’s the truth:
You haven’t missed anything.
You are exactly the right age, and you already have the perfect body for boudoir.

Kerry came along and conquered her fears to celebrate her 60th birthday

The myth of the “boudoir body”

Somewhere along the way, someone decided that confidence had an expiry date and that sexy had a dress size.

They were wrong.

Boudoir isn’t about fitting into an image — it’s about celebrating your story. Every curve, every scar, every laugh line… it all tells the story of who you are right now.

And that’s what we want to capture.

Chesea confided that she was felt super nervous being a curvy lady - she did beautifully and looks gorgeous.

What real clients say

We’ve photographed women in their 20s discovering their strength, women in their 30s and 40s reclaiming their confidence, and women in their 50s and 60s celebrating the skin they’re in — often for the first time in decades.

Every single one walks out saying some version of:

“I wish I’d done this sooner.”

Because once you see yourself the way we see you — strong, radiant, confident — you realise the “right time” isn’t a number.
It’s a mindset.

Brooke felt incredibly self conscious about her tummy after having two children but told us doing this was life changing.

What the camera actually sees

It doesn’t see size.
It doesn’t see age.
It sees light, emotion, and confidence.

And yes — we know exactly how to pose and light for real women’s bodies (no “model training” required).

Remember, as we talked about in Don’t Worry — We’ll Guide You Every Step of the Way

Kirsty felt self conscious about being so large breasted. One of the reasons she wanted to do a shoot was to fall in love with her body. She did wonderfully well.

The beauty of now

The best part?
You don’t have to change a single thing about yourself before your shoot.

No diets, no “I’ll just wait until after summer,” no “maybe next year.”
You’re already enough.

Confidence doesn’t come from a number on the scale — it comes from giving yourself permission to be seen.

Michelle decided to embrace her 50s by doing new things like a boudoir shoot and taking up dancing.

The big takeaway

You are not too old.
You are not too curvy.
You are not “past it.”

You’re a woman with stories, experiences, and beauty that’s evolved over time — and that’s exactly what makes your photos powerful.

So don’t wait for a “better version” of yourself.
Because the best version is already here — and she’s ready to shine.